how do I get A new wolf to my pack without trade?

You can play Wolf Party, but it's expensive. I know you won't like this, but your best way of getting a new wolf is from the trading post. You can also breed your wolves.

i would breed your alphas first, rather than spend mush in trading post just cause starter packs dont get a lot of money and its best to save in the beginning

You can try going to gathering->sanctuary and bidding on a wolf