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How sad would you be if she just... Disappeared? Also, it is not dumb, at all. I am the same way. I've actually snapped at family for shoulder pats, head pats, and hugs before. So. Definitely not dumb. Your mom sounds like the dumb one. Tamesis said: It's dumb but here it goes- Basically, I told her to stop kissing the top of my head (dumb, I know) as I get overstimulated with an extensive amount of touching. Was alright with it as a kid, but now it makes me uncomfortable as the senses have upped in sensitivity. Certain smells, textures, touching etc. triggers me. Like the tag on shirts would make me uncomfortable or certain smells. Been telling her to stop for weeks but she didn't want to listen until I snapped at her tonight. Now she's calling me a demon and bitch even though she's the one that kept pushing my boundaries.
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Thats not dumb! Your mother wasn't listening, its not your fault to be sensitive to things most people aren't. People have told me I shouldn't complain when my mother kisses me in public. I like physical touch but I do not like public physical affection, which is always when I don't want it and it happens- But no thats perfectly valid Tameysis I'm sorry >:o Tamesis said: It's dumb but here it goes- Basically, I told her to stop kissing the top of my head (dumb, I know) as I get overstimulated with an extensive amount of touching. Was alright with it as a kid, but now it makes me uncomfortable as the senses have upped in sensitivity. Certain smells, textures, touching etc. triggers me. Like the tag on shirts would make me uncomfortable or certain smells. Been telling her to stop for weeks but she didn't want to listen until I snapped at her tonight. Now she's calling me a demon and bitch even though she's the one that kept pushing my boundaries.
Edited at April 28, 2023 10:39 PM by iArema
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It is not dumb! every feeling is perfectly valid even if emotions can be irrational at times!! that all makes sense though and I am sorry you had to deal with that. my parents tend to make things way worse when I get overly stimulated whether they realize it or not so if there is anything I can do let me know! Tamesis said: It's dumb but here it goes- Basically, I told her to stop kissing the top of my head (dumb, I know) as I get overstimulated with an extensive amount of touching. Was alright with it as a kid, but now it makes me uncomfortable as the senses have upped in sensitivity. Certain smells, textures, touching etc. triggers me. Like the tag on shirts would make me uncomfortable or certain smells. Been telling her to stop for weeks but she didn't want to listen until I snapped at her tonight. Now she's calling me a demon and bitch even though she's the one that kept pushing my boundaries.
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Overly flirty jerk lmao M I S E R Y said: now i gotta start brainstorming on what type of characters i wanna use for your rp spellXD i know i'm definitely making a male for the vice president of assassins but i have no clue if i want him to be an overly flirty jerk or a standoffish/mysterious type
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I don't why I don't like it now. I was fine with it while I was a kid. ;-; I still like physical touch, but too much makes me uncomfortable. --- Posted it early since I'm working on my other RP and didn't want to lose either progress. But thanks, you guys. Nice to know that I'm not alone in such cases. <3 Edited at April 28, 2023 10:44 PM by Tamesis
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Awh honey, no. That is not dumb, it's very valid. It's like me and my mom - I hate when she forces hugs and such but I haven't had the heart to say anything. So at least you have the confidence to do so Tamesis said: It's dumb but here it goes- Basically, I told her to stop kissing the top of my head (dumb, I know) as I get overstimulated with an extensive amount of touching. Was alright with it as a kid, but now it makes me uncomfortable as the senses have upped in sensitivity. Certain smells, textures, touching etc. triggers me. Like the tag on shirts would make me uncomfortable or certain smells. Been telling her to stop for weeks but she didn't want to listen until I snapped at her tonight. Now she's calling me a demon and bitch even though she's the one that kept pushing my boundaries.
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overly flirty jerk it isXD and i'm the same way when it comes to affection. too much just makes me feel awkward and uncomfortable
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I had the confidence tonight but at the cost of my social anxiety 👌 Tomorrow would be awkward, I can already tell
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so we have two people in the assassin so far, overly flirty jerk and flirty masochist. this is turning out to be an interesting class. M I S E R Y said: overly flirty jerk it isXD and i'm the same way when it comes to affection. too much just makes me feel awkward and uncomfortable
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Physical touch in fine under certain conditions, I know the feeling I have that texture issue also! Can't handle anything around my neck, or anything tight around my head Tamesis said: I don't why I don't like it now. I was fine with it while I was a kid. ;-; I still like physical touch, but too much makes me uncomfortable. --- Posted it early since I'm working on my other RP and didn't want to lose either progress. But thanks, you guys. Nice to know that I'm not alone in such cases. <3
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