I payed for my male wolf to breed with a female from another pack. Does the owner of the female get to keep the pup or do i. If I don't why did I pay. Did I just give them a free wolf?

You can mail the owner of the female to see if they will give/sell you one of the pups but yes, the owner of the female wolf keeps the pups by default. They are not required to give you a puppy.

Then why did I pay

Because that's how studding works; generally the owners of each wolf make an agreement beforehand.

Moving to member help.

i did the same thinking you could keep it i just bought an expensive male to breed whoops