I get that *^* and if she's brash and impulsive, it may do you some good to have her function off and know her own emotions. and ack yeah it is difficult I know >.< Hmm... if you want to avoid tropes, maybe play the priveledge card to balance out the whole mass murder of her family? She came from high-born people, so maybe she's used to getting her way?

yeah- Jaro does expect things to go her way- her mother is/was the only person that could really tell her what to do, though her father did try XD
And she understands her emotions- like there's no detachment or whatever-

I honestly don't think tropes are that bad, as long as they're written well and properly fleshed out.

I agree! Many tropes are only not great to implement because they're overused, not because they're bad. So as long as they're well written, everything should be fine ^^

but can I write well? or well enough? ehehehhehe

yess you totally can, so you're all good ^^

noOOo
Don't you dare-
I'm gonna pretend I didn't read that.

shush you are good and I will never say otherwise, you cannot escape my praise -

I could just break every WP rule and get myself banned so I don't see them.

I -

no -

hehe- I've found a way to keep you from complimenting me.