Hey. So I'll just get straight to the point.

I am a female. That is my sex. And I've always identified as she/her, and have never really changed that. I more of a tom-boy and not really into the most feminine things, and it's nothing surprising as that is how most of the females in my family are. Anyways, I've recently just been struggling with what to identify as. Some days I feel more masculine and others I feel more feminine. I've been wanting to try they/them and she/her, see how I like it, and maybe try he/him later down the line. The only struggle I have is that my older sister is very against the whole gender identification thing and my younger one is perfectly fine about it. I feel like my parents wouldn't really understand that, so I don't think I'll tell them. I have a few friends I could inform, but I would like some advice first before truly letting anyone know. As stupid as it may sound, it's just a big struggle right now and honestly can stress me out sometimes if I overthink it.

I'm not the best at expressing myself either, so sorry if any of that sounds a bit jumbled or just rushed. It's honestly making me question myself more than it probably should, and I know some of the WP community might struggle with the same thing or have some useful advice from their experience(s). That is why I cam here first ^^

I'm in the same boat Corpses! I am very masculine most of the time, but do not really know what to identify as either. Maybe this thread can help both of us! <3

Aww, PM me if you need to rant <3 I'm hoping to get answers

Don't have the feeling to come forward to your parents and siblings at the start, take your time, you're ready to fully come out when you're ready. Sometimes it isn't easy coming out to them. I have the same issue, but my mom accepts me as who I am and my sister as well, but my step father doesn't at all. Honestly, if you have friends that you're able to come out to, that's a great start! take your time with it in the end, you'll know you're ready to come out when the time comes, It took my 5 years before I came out to my parents and family.

Thank you! And the same for you love <3

Jade: I think I'll put off on actually telling anyone as I am still having the struggle. Right now, I will always go by she/her, but more-so online is when I say either she/her or they/them. It doesn't bother me much, but getting to know if I'd be comfortable with he/him would be a different story. I think time is really all I need right now and just some general thoughts about things I could do to either ease the stress or to truly figure it out. Thank you for the input <3

Wilted: I honestly never thought of it like that. There's probably other reasons as to why I would lean more towards they/them or he/him on some days, but for now it's just the constant feeling 'out of my body' that I cannot exactly explain. My PMs are open as well, and thank you for the input.

Argent: <3

If your a girl, then you should stay a girl,

Dude, everyone has their personal judgement. They are allowed to do what they want. Let Corpses decide for themself.

....dude, really?